Trans girl* looking for community. She/they. Musician, gamer, parent. Knows enough about tech to trust it less each day. *Transfeminine parent in her 30s who doesn't quite know how to be a woman yet.https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3mj6n4fsbu22hI think apples are the worst fruit. Yes, I've had durian. [contains quote post or other embedded content]11 Apr 2026 00:59 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mj6n4fsbu22hhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3me2ntgacis2vToday's mood: gender is fake and sucks. Taking hormones is cool though.04 Feb 2026 19:56 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3me2ntgacis2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3mcybdtcgos25Hey, @smith.senate.gov and especially @klobuchar.senate.gov this is the energy we need you to be bringing right now. I'm your constituent, and I also just left you voicemails with basically this message. [contains quote post or other embedded content]22 Jan 2026 03:42 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mcybdtcgos25https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3magln5bshk2bI should have stretched more before this one, but: A girl named Billie Jo, short for Flammable Nacho. [contains quote post or other embedded content]20 Dec 2025 16:08 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3magln5bshk2bhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3maglgeuh522bPerson named Lou, short for Cthulhu. [contains quote post or other embedded content]20 Dec 2025 16:04 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3maglgeuh522bhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3maevzkrj7s2pGirl named Jill, short for Fragility. [contains quote post or other embedded content]20 Dec 2025 00:08 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3maevzkrj7s2phttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3m6wo56bde22xI started some transition aspects several years ago as we started trying for kids, then started hormones about a year ago just before the last kid we're planning for was born. That's a lot on so many levels, but the crossfade of trans depersonalization to new mother depersonalization is rough.01 Dec 2025 14:45 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m6wo56bde22xhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3m5iwnnf57k2tI did not know what I was getting into when I started this thread. So good though. [contains quote post or other embedded content]13 Nov 2025 10:14 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m5iwnnf57k2thttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3m5d6g6wm3c2xHey @schumer.senate.gov @klobuchar.senate.gov , I know I'm nobody, but I just signed up with my local DSA and indivisible groups today with this thought in mind. Stop capitulating. Stand up and fight. [contains quote post or other embedded content]11 Nov 2025 03:17 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m5d6g6wm3c2xhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3m2tnmy4ll22m"I'm tired of the work it requires to be feminine" ≠ "I'm not trans enough or not woman enough" ☝️ Something I should remember. Sorting out transition feelings is hard, and there's a lot of negative pressure from outside my own sense of self (special shout out to how annoying voice training is).10 Oct 2025 12:17 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m2tnmy4ll22mhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3m2rauikacc26I just realized that "good enough" is not really an intentional option in my head except as a highly calibrated efficiency setting. That's probably not healthy, right?09 Oct 2025 13:23 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m2rauikacc26https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3m2cksp3fsc23It's kind of neat that the main character of the day is the CEO. It's like whatever the opposite of a crossover episode is.03 Oct 2025 17:11 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m2cksp3fsc23https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3lzx3wkgukk26I need to read more Coates. Thanks Imani for the free link (it's several down this thread if you haven't read it yet). There's lots to say, but this spoke a bit to a problem/orientation in myself that I don't know what to do with. I've been sarcastically calling it "baby's first oppression". [contains quote post or other embedded content]29 Sep 2025 03:45 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3lzx3wkgukk26https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3lyyokzgg7225This is in general, but I mean it extra for that one coworker. [contains quote post or other embedded content]17 Sep 2025 01:26 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3lyyokzgg7225https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3lyyogwpdsc25She/whatever-just-came-out-of-your-mouth-is-fine-if-you-weren't-trying-to-be-rude-let's-just-move-on [contains quote post or other embedded content]17 Sep 2025 01:24 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3lyyogwpdsc25https://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3lyne3ldgdc2nI think I've finally put my finger on a feeling I've been having about maybe using she/any pronouns. She is most comfortable and what all my loved ones use, but to some extent I don't really care what you call me; I'm trans for my own sake.12 Sep 2025 13:20 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3lyne3ldgdc2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/robingender.bsky.social/post/3luj6xxbwy22oSo I've been trying to put my finger on a set of non-feelings I've been having, and I think I at least partly figured it out: I moved straight from Transsexual Depersonalization™ to Motherhood Depersonalization™.21 Jul 2025 23:57 +0000at://did:plc:aheyzlggoluj45liyhfchcbf/app.bsky.feed.post/3luj6xxbwy22o