Relationship coach, weirdo, and very new to the concept of social media. Short form content is weird.https://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3lo5d2xdp4c2ySlowly but surely decorating my new office ❤️01 May 2025 22:07 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3lo5d2xdp4c2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3lgqtsyjetk2fHoly Clothing is out here giving me a full-on crisis over which dress to buy in which color. I'm about to break out a new spreadsheet over this nonsense.27 Jan 2025 21:06 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3lgqtsyjetk2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3l7ogve5bcp2rTHE BOY HUNGERS.29 Oct 2024 20:13 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3l7ogve5bcp2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3l4m6mieosk2mWhat is happiness? I talk about it here: https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/09/happiness.html What is happiness for YOU? Cause for this good boy, it's head pats and crime.20 Sep 2024 18:24 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3l4m6mieosk2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3l42s2ou37w23Camping and podcasts and cars, oh my! I have a sale going on for new clients and a bunch of new podcasts coming out soon, check it out here: https://www.allforlovecoaching.com/recent-appearances13 Sep 2024 20:24 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3l42s2ou37w23https://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3l2l6w4wdyv2iHome from a fulfilling but exhausting weekend of camping. My first event as an organizer, and nothing blew up. I'm calling that a win.25 Aug 2024 22:06 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3l2l6w4wdyv2ihttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3l2ae2lutof2xI got interviewed on another podcast! Check it out here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationship-coach-anneke-elmhirst/id1660256991?i=1000666122317 I talk about work, family, and my weird-ass brain.21 Aug 2024 14:39 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3l2ae2lutof2xhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kz7lcvzd7k2aIt's pretty gratifying when your first two podcast interviewers both have the same response. "... Oh, we're going to need you on for multiple episodes, aren't we?"08 Aug 2024 13:51 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kz7lcvzd7k2ahttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kyxrmykcqg25Getting a client who feels "called" to work with me is such an honor ever time... and also wild amounts of pressure. Imposter syndrome is such a bitch.05 Aug 2024 11:22 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kyxrmykcqg25https://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kyszrrfsac2vOkay not to be a corporate shill but I might be in love with PodMatch already and it's been under 24 hours.03 Aug 2024 14:05 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kyszrrfsac2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kyonk4xqy22bAn innocent networking call turned into an MLM pitch, and a new client no-showed for an appointment. Sometimes you just have to admit the day is a wash and take a nap.01 Aug 2024 20:15 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kyonk4xqy22bhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kygjs2h4wq2lI wrote about creativity, and the unlikely places it shows up. Read all about it: https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/moving-inner-and-outer-furniture.html To answer a question from @hazelnym.bsky.social yes, I do just live under a cat blanket 90% of my life.29 Jul 2024 14:47 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kygjs2h4wq2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3ky6uxjjm352hBeing a woman in the professional sphere is hard. Being a woman in my particular professional sphere... well, it's not always as fun as it could be. Check out my post for a disappointing story: https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/misogyny-or-another-disappointing.html Pictured: a recent project that doesn't disappoint!26 Jul 2024 13:45 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3ky6uxjjm352hhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3ky2mwrv24p23Nothing like the air right before a storm, watching the clouds roll in from the hammock.24 Jul 2024 21:11 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3ky2mwrv24p23https://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kxxwria7eo2fStruggle with boundaries? Yeah, you're not alone. I'm working on a full series about saying/hearing "no," and I just released the first piece at https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/the-joy-of-no.html Pictured: a very grumpy and judgmental Esmeralda23 Jul 2024 19:29 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kxxwria7eo2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kxn7c7aiji2pWhat is coaching? How is it different from therapy? I've got a metaphor for you! https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/coaching-vs-therapy-metaphor.html Pictured: a rare moment of peace19 Jul 2024 13:02 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kxn7c7aiji2phttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kxdisk2z7e22I wrote a thing. This is kind of a test of Bluesky's censors - can I say the phrase "sex work" without getting kicked to the curb? Only time will tell. https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/06/you-dont-understand-sex-work.html15 Jul 2024 16:26 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kxdisk2z7e22https://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kwyz7nxwq32bTherapists are human too, for better or worse. What happens if yours isn't accepting of your "lifestyle"? I've written an advice piece here: https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/kink-unfriendly-therapists.html Cat pic for tax and also just to brag about my babies.11 Jul 2024 12:20 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kwyz7nxwq32bhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kvjkncayct2jQuote of the day from my mother, about lesbians liking Subarus, "Well, I want you to inherit mine, and I know you're bisexual, so you'll have to give that up."22 Jun 2024 15:24 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kvjkncayct2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kve7yj6u332jQuote of the day, spoken to my cat: You are not allowed to munch the delicious hallucinogens!20 Jun 2024 12:31 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kve7yj6u332jhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kuqqokclcu2r"I want to help people" is such a common, cliche phrase, but why? What about it leaves such a bad taste in my mouth, despite my own "helping" urges? Read all about it here: https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/06/the-problem-with-helping.html (Current WIP for algorithm tax and funsies)12 Jun 2024 18:36 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kuqqokclcu2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3ktveqiipmm25I did two brave things today - I gifted my first attempt at lifelike embroidery, and I posted a blog on why I'm leaving behavior analysis. Check it out at https://allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/06/why-im-abandoning-my-bcba.html01 Jun 2024 21:20 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3ktveqiipmm25https://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kskh5trmzu2nAfter wrestling with every software under the sun, I've managed to get the recordings of my recent podcast and panel appearances to work! I talk about mental health and the intersection of coaching and sexual health. Check it out here: https://www.allforlovecoaching.com/miscellaneous/recent-appearances15 May 2024 19:39 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kskh5trmzu2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3krybtk3rds2rScreamy boi says "There's a Bound Top to Bottom podcast episode coming out soon featuring meeeeeee!" Check out all episodes at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bound-top-to-bottom/id172745653508 May 2024 14:16 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3krybtk3rds2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kq72qtsc7f2nYou know you're an adult when you get excited about your insurance adjustor getting creative with how they apply your deductible. Relatedly uhhhhhh don't go into my basement without scuba gear, k?15 Apr 2024 20:08 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kq72qtsc7f2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3kpsg6ydvdy2yGet loved, idiot. My newest blog post is up at allforlovecoaching.com/miscellaneous/blog where I discuss compromise and pizza. Stay tuned for some spicier posts to come, including an update to my "coming out to parents" post!10 Apr 2024 19:28 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3kpsg6ydvdy2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3ko7mfe4fmo2yWelp, migraine on Tuesday led to a pinched nerve yesterday and today. Did I just yelp with pain while trying to lift a water bottle? Maybe.21 Mar 2024 14:33 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3ko7mfe4fmo2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3ko2xx42llk2gThree client leads in two days, and only ONE of them treated me like a SWer! Honestly that's a win. (No shade to SWers, y'all do important work with talent)19 Mar 2024 18:16 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3ko2xx42llk2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/allforlove.bsky.social/post/3knoadim4a32uI have a blog! Occasionally I even post to it! If you want to read about my personal values and how they influence my philosophy, check it out at https://www.allforlovecoaching.com/miscellaneous/blog14 Mar 2024 16:42 +0000at://did:plc:ef5jitlt7k7s2txeygsvpumz/app.bsky.feed.post/3knoadim4a32u