Trans Man Actor Horror Enthusiast ACAB Punch N@zis Abolish ICE My Substack: https://substack.com/@donniecianciotto #translivesmatterhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3myibodis3k2nHelp Rey get the wheelchair they need! gofund.me/dbd817500 https://gofund.me/dbd81750022 Oct 2026 18:19 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3myibodis3k2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mwofglmnz22rMy dearest friend (and ex-spouse, hence the same last name - yes, ex-spouses can be friends!) is going through difficult health issues compounded by workplace discrimination and ableism. Please read & share their story, and donate if you're able. I know the value of community support and mutual aid! https://www.gofundme.com/f/reys-path-back-to-dance-movement-therapy-health-mobility29 Sep 2026 17:52 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mwofglmnz22rhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mwl7wbvqwc2jMy dearest friend (and ex-spouse, hence the same last name - yes, ex-spouses can be friends!) is going through difficult health issues compounded by workplace discrimination and ableism. Please read & share their story, and donate if you're able. I know the value of community support firsthand! https://www.gofundme.com/f/reys-path-back-to-dance-movement-therapy-health-mobility28 Sep 2026 11:36 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mwl7wbvqwc2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mvsxoeccys2gTomorrow, Sat Sept 19th at 4pm at Caveat! In person and livestream tix available at www.transvoicescabaretnyc.com and we'd love to see you there!18 Sep 2026 20:04 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mvsxoeccys2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mvqeyuskfc2nTrans Voices Cabaret is happening THIS SATURDAY, September 19th at 4pm at Caveat on the lower east side. Livestream tix available as well! Visit www.transvoicescabaretnyc.com for tix! https://www.transvoicescabaretnyc.com17 Sep 2026 19:25 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mvqeyuskfc2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mu5kpxuro225Next month I won't have to ask for laundry money, but for now I desperately need $20 to get my clothes washed. Thank you so much if you're able to help. Venmo is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.)28 Aug 2026 14:21 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mu5kpxuro225https://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mtjpsn3no22cBig Stressed about rent. I'll start.making regular paychecks sometime next month, but I'm still really screwed for Sept 1st. I won't have to ask for help much longer, but in the meantime my \/3n|\/|0 is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.) Everything helps. Thank you!20 Aug 2026 16:59 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtjpsn3no22chttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3msaymer3nk2gSurgery tomorrow. Very nervous, but glad it's happening. I can still use a little help with getting to (and from, whenever they release me - hopefully Thursday) from the hospital with Uber. My Venmo is @Donnie-Cianciotto if you can assist! See you on the other side (I hope!)04 Aug 2026 12:17 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3msaymer3nk2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3ms4bgrlgjk2nI'm having surgery in 3 days. Clap for me.02 Aug 2026 15:12 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3ms4bgrlgjk2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mrpywrvzcs2qNew article dropped this morning! Check it out! https://donniecianciotto.substack.com/p/trans-voices-cabaret28 Jul 2026 18:08 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mrpywrvzcs2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mrdcxjscus2vHow long can 2 teenage lesbians keep their relationship a secret from Evangelical parents, and is it even possible? Read my latest to find out! https://donniecianciotto.substack.com/p/the-airport-story?r=2u38x523 Jul 2026 17:03 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mrdcxjscus2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mqdlygnwvc2jNothing, why? What are you doing?11 Jul 2026 02:19 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mqdlygnwvc2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mpk5hcpzoc27I'm $85 short on rent and in a panic. If you can help even a tiny bit, my \/-e|\|m0 is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.) Anything helps. Thank you.30 Jun 2026 23:22 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mpk5hcpzoc27https://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mpgqlum3gc2f$110 short on rent for next month. If you can help me get any steps closer to making it so I can stay housed, my \/e|\|m-0 is @ Donnie - Cianciotto (without the spaces.) My nervous system is destroying itself, so any help at all would be tremendously appreciated. Thank you.29 Jun 2026 14:54 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mpgqlum3gc2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3moxlfrsgj224I'm having a potentially life-changing surgery in August. Many pre and post surgical needs are deeply discounted atm (I hate Bezos, but disabled folks don't have many options), so if you can help me get set up for surgical success, I would be most grateful. Thank you. https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3Q30SY5G3IEIV?ref_=wl_share23 Jun 2026 14:11 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3moxlfrsgj224https://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3movj6zccos2tJust had a physical therapy evaluation with a new PT and I just don't understand why it's so hard for able-bodied people to believe disabled people, doubly so if we happen to be fat. Not a great day, I'd give it 0 of 5 stars. This is one of the reasons I wrote: https://donniecianciotto.substack.com/p/believe-disabled-people?r=2u38x522 Jun 2026 18:27 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3movj6zccos2thttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3molnfdi67s25Read for free, or subscribe and help me keep the lights on by writing! Thank you! https://substack.com/@donniecianciotto18 Jun 2026 20:15 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3molnfdi67s25https://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3moemrgfvhc2wToday is the 14th anniversary of my first testosterone shot. Happy Manniversary to me.16 Jun 2026 01:15 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3moemrgfvhc2whttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mnuzcrbcck2jAnother Stack dropped today! Read for free at the link! https://open.substack.com/pub/donniecianciotto/p/believe-disabled-people?r=2u38x5&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web09 Jun 2026 20:17 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mnuzcrbcck2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mnd4x3ifm22oNew Stack is out! Happy Pride to everyone. Be gay, do crime, stay hydrated! https://open.substack.com/pub/donniecianciotto/p/the-importance-of-pride?r=2u38x5&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true02 Jun 2026 17:34 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mnd4x3ifm22ohttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mmkd77st3s2lNew Stack up! Would love for you to go check it out! https://open.substack.com/pub/donniecianciotto/p/the-man-in-the-picture?r=2u38x5&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true23 May 2026 20:50 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mmkd77st3s2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mlti7yc7s22oThrowback Thursday to when I did an End of the World photo shoot in April 2020 while we were all quarantining & I was losing my mind with boredom. It's unfair that my getting hot for a while there coincided with the world shutting down, but ain't that just my luck? Anyway, enjoy my designer nipples.14 May 2026 18:48 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlti7yc7s22ohttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mlqqdaxe622s"I found out I was going to be making my off-Broadway/professional New York City theater debut while sitting in an airport cantina somewhere in Texas. I’d given up on my dream of acting professionally the first time I put a needle full of testosterone into my leg..." Read for free or subscribe!! https://donniecianciotto.substack.com/p/southern-comfort?r=2u38x513 May 2026 16:35 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlqqdaxe622shttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mle6hcfdes2gNew free article just dropped! Go subscribe (both free and paid options available!) to find out what my ex-girlfriend said to me when I came out as transgender! https://donniecianciotto.substack.com/p/you-just-like-the-attention08 May 2026 16:43 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mle6hcfdes2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3ml7npuovok2aGot an email from my lawyer today that it may still take quite a while (many months) before Disability makes a decision re: my appeal. I feel like this torture is never going to end. https://gofund.me/e1f565a8706 May 2026 21:33 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml7npuovok2ahttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3ml55jyjkyc2zWelp, why not? I've got plenty to say and lots of time to say it. Now you can read it. Yay. https://open.substack.com/pub/donniecianciotto/p/welcome-to-my-substack?r=2u38x5&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true05 May 2026 21:38 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml55jyjkyc2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/utterlyridiculous.bsky.social/post/3mksbdkfnfs2jI am about $300 away from being able to pay rent this month. I'm sure it would absolutely thrill my landlady, and it would take a lot of pressure off of me. I'm so pressurized. Please help if you can. Thank you so much. gofund.me/baea30d94 https://gofund.me/baea30d9401 May 2026 13:47 +0000at://did:plc:ehs462wgnklbe3fss3gmbwee/app.bsky.feed.post/3mksbdkfnfs2j