Work in FE. Football lover. Lifelong Notts County fan. 70s, 80s music. Love a good book. Peace not conflict!https://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3mtrglgcluc23Actually takes years to recognise emotional abuse as abuse. You spend a long time making excuses for it. [contains quote post or other embedded content]23 Aug 2026 18:35 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtrglgcluc23https://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3msgny4ctuk2bI like this! 😍06 Aug 2026 18:23 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3msgny4ctuk2bhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3mph4w3hcts2yNice gift from my son ❤️29 Jun 2026 18:35 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3mph4w3hcts2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3mmbmf73r4c2aRead this... "No one understands life trapped in a miserable marriage, trying to make it work day after day, unless they have experienced it. No one" This is my barrier wanting so much to go to Wembley. I could have arranged to go with a family friend and son but there would be accusations of 1/220 May 2026 09:40 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3mmbmf73r4c2ahttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3mbfe2r76jk2lAfter a bit of a rubbish Christmas and New Year, a win would have been good today. Ahh well, hopefully on Sunday...01 Jan 2026 21:45 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3mbfe2r76jk2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3m7awo5x4lc2yAt work I can be the person I am, but at home I am silent. A protection strategy to avoid 'saying the wrong thing'. His silence though, is always a punishment. Outside stuff like football, is always with my kids as he won't say anything to look bad in front of them. [contains quote post or other embedded content]05 Dec 2025 16:44 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3m7awo5x4lc2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3m6jvbbb43k2mOMG still buzzing after Gary Numan at Rock City! Amazing how someone can make their songs from 45 years ago sound as good if not better today. Lighting, band and vocals spot on. His daughter Raven was great as the support act too.26 Nov 2025 12:48 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3m6jvbbb43k2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3m62tscb2es2bWhat an absolute legend to be carrying on with his tour. He must be devastated. Going on Tuesday when he is at Rock City. I went to the original Telekon tour in 1980, so beyond excited for this. Apparently still putting on an amazing show despite his grief 💔 [contains quote post or other embedded content]20 Nov 2025 13:11 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3m62tscb2es2bhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lvf4i4xtk22xHave had a fabulous 3 weeks in Florida with relatives, but now looking forward to coming back tomorrow and going to Meadow Lane next Saturday🖤🤍02 Aug 2025 02:27 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lvf4i4xtk22xhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lsrlpja5rc2mFirst saw Gary Numan in 1979. He sold out Wembley a couple of years ago and now was amazing at Glastonbury. Bought my Rock City tickets for his tour in November today. Beyond excited!29 Jun 2025 21:15 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lsrlpja5rc2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lqg3mis5m223He's going isn't he? I know there is an argument of value because of a probability of even more injuries next season, but finding it hard to justify letting him go. My son a neutral is always saying the owners have cost us promotion both seasons. Starting to find it hard to find reasons to disagree.30 May 2025 20:38 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lqg3mis5m223https://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lodsfdrvfs2mAlso feel for Jodi. He looked physically done in. He looked like he was crying to me. He has hardly played all season and he will know the high expectation from him. 90 clearly took it out of him and I'm sure he will be hard on himself for mistakes.04 May 2025 11:57 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lodsfdrvfs2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lods3caxcs2mThere may have been over 13000 of us there, and some saying the players sucked the life out of us, but the Pavis was deadly silent all match after the first goal. Yes we came but we let them down as well imo. All the players would have heard 2nd half is Doncaster noise.04 May 2025 11:51 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lods3caxcs2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lm5plbjnjs2sBeautiful blue sky at Filey beach. Had a lovely relaxing weekend at the North Yorkshire coast.06 Apr 2025 15:00 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lm5plbjnjs2shttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3liijr4inlk2sDon't get the booing. Not at our best, but really missing key players. Though Abbot should have got MOTM. Bit controversial this maybe, as I know some want it, but back to Pavis next time for me. Had to stand in kop all match as 3 rows below me did and with an arthritic knee was not ideal.19 Feb 2025 00:35 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3liijr4inlk2shttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lihp3aqn3c2vAround 30 years. Sounds crazy but when it is not physical, it's hard to see it as abuse. Thankfully, more awareness now, which helps to see it for what it is. [contains quote post or other embedded content]18 Feb 2025 16:37 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lihp3aqn3c2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lhyphseoac2rStory of my life... [contains quote post or other embedded content]12 Feb 2025 17:34 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lhyphseoac2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lgkrrtpdgk2yCan't go today 😮‍💨but looking forward to Tuesday under the lights! Hopefully 3 points in both matches. COYP! 🖤🤍 [contains quote post or other embedded content]25 Jan 2025 11:13 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lgkrrtpdgk2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lfwllmfmss2zThis is so relatable to me. This isn't posted for likes etc. but to have a place to say it when I often have to be silent. Thinking of paying for a therapist, but feels a big step at the moment...17 Jan 2025 10:29 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lfwllmfmss2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lfq2oqa7lk2gBe good to get to February to turn the calendar over! But a part of me is gutted he didn't stay and it's a shame it has ended in animosity.14 Jan 2025 20:11 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lfq2oqa7lk2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lf472m564c2yUnfortunately true... [contains quote post or other embedded content]06 Jan 2025 22:36 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lf472m564c2yhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lezkjvhz5s2rWell that 2 weeks soon passed. Alarm on, back to work. One positive, getting slightly lighter each night! Not a winter person. Only good thing about this time of year is it's football season!05 Jan 2025 21:23 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lezkjvhz5s2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lewywcb3es26Enjoyed my 1st hospitality match. Saw my fave player from back in the day, Les Bradd and passed Jodi on the stairs. Excellent food, loved the comfy seats lol and enjoyed the match. Didzy on fire. Austin, Abbott and Platt brilliant. A great win to end these run of games!04 Jan 2025 21:03 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lewywcb3es26https://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3leufdmbnrk2eCan any Notts fans help? Booked hospitality for tomorrow ages ago. Had no correspondence apart from to book a particular course of meal. I'm a bit worried as I had no idea there would be a dress code. Can't find any details online, worried may get refused entry. My son is always casual wear.03 Jan 2025 20:07 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3leufdmbnrk2ehttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lelpkslcx22dReflection on the last day of 2024. I have been very fortunate this year to visit 3 new places: New York, Malta, and Krakow. On the flip side, I lost my wonderful Dad. Also, after 35 often difficult years, I am beginning to acknowledge I am in an abusive relationship. Still some denial, so more...31 Dec 2024 09:16 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lelpkslcx22dhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lehnqwex2s2fFeeling happy. 3rd Notts win, 2nd in table and Jodi is back! 🖤🤍29 Dec 2024 18:33 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lehnqwex2s2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3lehauulk522lJodi Jones!! Nothing more to say!! 😍😍🖤🤍29 Dec 2024 14:42 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3lehauulk522lhttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3legmz46aik25Two of the most stressful but emotional matches of my life! [contains quote post or other embedded content]29 Dec 2024 08:47 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3legmz46aik25https://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3le63n3ui4s2gMy best Christmas presents. 🖤🤍25 Dec 2024 23:15 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3le63n3ui4s2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/debmcg.bsky.social/post/3ldy5azwhis2hFirst one without my Dad 😢 [contains quote post or other embedded content]23 Dec 2024 14:28 +0000at://did:plc:itfozobihxyyhjcdhdreqjvi/app.bsky.feed.post/3ldy5azwhis2h