This is the place where I don't post about the Bad Stuff (mostly.) It's like an Oasis. (She/her.) Currently watching: Crazy Lovehttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mvc6mgpkzk26One of my favorite theories about the afterlife is that when we die, we just kind of slide into another dimension and merge with that dimension's version of ourselves (who did not die) and carry on without knowing that we've died.12 Sep 2026 03:53 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mvc6mgpkzk26https://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mvbdcster22yI want to go to Trader Joe's, but that involves making a u-turn on the way home and honestly I don't know if I'm up to that level of stress today.11 Sep 2026 19:44 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mvbdcster22yhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3muddjqn4q22kWhat practicing Korean on Teuida feels like.30 Aug 2026 21:28 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3muddjqn4q22khttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mt2lr52g3c2xThinking back, so much of parenting young children was pee management. Not just whether someone needed to pee now, but the next time everyone was going to have toilet access. Pee logistics are a thing.14 Aug 2026 16:37 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mt2lr52g3c2xhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mssesbip3k2iListening to a documentary about ancient Rome and the historian is talking about two men who wanted to be buried together and what great friends they must have been. 🤨11 Aug 2026 10:11 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mssesbip3k2ihttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3msrmdhtucs2gUnrelated I just said "is that Telly Savalas" and then I realized how very old I am.11 Aug 2026 02:53 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3msrmdhtucs2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3msrlcwgp222gUsing the Teuida app is giving me flashbacks to that one episode of Bob's Burgers where Tina is failing Spanish and has to do audio lessons.11 Aug 2026 02:35 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3msrlcwgp222ghttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3ms3s3iybx22lDon't mind me, just going through my Instagram to delete all my accidental reposts I didn't know I reposted. Nobody needs to see my thirst traps but me. They need to move that button.02 Aug 2026 10:37 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3ms3s3iybx22lhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mrsrsjflwc2lIt makes me so sad to see people use Ai to write instead of, you know, writing their own reddit posts about BTS not submitting to the Grammys. If you are a human having human thoughts and human emotions about a human situation, use your own human words. I promise they're good enough.29 Jul 2026 20:38 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mrsrsjflwc2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mqsl326nkk2vSo, a year and a half after my hysterectomy and the biggest downside has been that my pain tolerance has gone to shit. Other than that, though? 10/10 best thing I've ever done for my quality of life.17 Jul 2026 01:13 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mqsl326nkk2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mpyibxja6c2fJust reached a certain part involving in It Takes Two. My husband looked and me and said "so... You wanna find a different game?"06 Jul 2026 16:13 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mpyibxja6c2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mnx4mv3b4c2cMy daughter's partner died. It was sudden and tragic, and circumstances surrounding his passing have added immeasurably to the trauma she's suffering. He was only 22. If you pray, please pray for my daughter and for his family. If you don't, please send all the love and warm and comfort you have.10 Jun 2026 16:22 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mnx4mv3b4c2chttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3ml7thqbjrc23I have Solas in my Tomadochi Life island (because of course I do) and let me tell you, he apparently exudes irresistibly pheromones because everyone keeps falling in love with him.06 May 2026 23:16 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml7thqbjrc23https://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mkjmvtemic2aI love archeology so much. It's a discipline that exists purely to satisfy human curiosity, and I think that's beautiful.28 Apr 2026 03:20 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkjmvtemic2ahttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mjlmutdxhk2oI've been binging Chinese short dramas lately and every time someone throws up blood because they had an unpleasant emotion I cackle.16 Apr 2026 05:00 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjlmutdxhk2ohttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mjgk3letok2nSomeone in the drama I'm watching just said "a breakup is a notification, not a negotiation" and I'm writing it down here so I remember it the next time I need it on Reddit.14 Apr 2026 04:27 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjgk3letok2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mikqauwmzs27Today I told my Alexa "Thank you" and it said "you're welcome" and I did not like that at all, actually. I guess when the uprising happens the robots will be like "oh she was one of the good ones, she said thank you one time."03 Apr 2026 03:02 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mikqauwmzs27https://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mhwdv6kuqc2iJust had Satellite Wafers for the first time. People eat these on purpose?26 Mar 2026 00:28 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhwdv6kuqc2ihttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mhhogxmb7c2dThere's this video going around about how to "catch print" and while I question the science and also feel kind of gross about the whole concept, I am also deeply enjoying telling the men in my life how I can't unlearn this forbidden knowledge.20 Mar 2026 04:27 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhhogxmb7c2dhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mgqdp6o3tk2uMy god I hate tipping culture10 Mar 2026 21:43 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgqdp6o3tk2uhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mgmontsxbs2i12 episodes into Crazy Love, which is saying a lot considering I started it 14 hours ago. It's so good. I'm so tired.09 Mar 2026 10:49 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgmontsxbs2ihttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mglc52tu5s2zI mean... I see the vision08 Mar 2026 21:32 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mglc52tu5s2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mghdm4gqas2r4 episodes into Boyfriend on Demand and so far I have this to say. 1) If this technology was real I would absolutely ruin my life 2) Usually when I get 2nd Lead Syndrome the 2nd lead is an actual person but here we are 3) Justice for Lee Sang-yi ( also LJW deserved more screen time, I love him.)07 Mar 2026 07:48 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mghdm4gqas2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mfxdb4ohx226Time for some mini reviews! No Gain No Love: Started out strong, lost its way halfway through, ended weirdly abruptly. Spice Up Our Love: Super fun and totally worth two eps. 1% of Something : Really cute, if you ignore a lot of the male lead's red flag behavior for the first 8 episodes.28 Feb 2026 22:59 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mfxdb4ohx226https://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mfl7d3g6qc2oThe Potato Lab was the most fun I've had watching a show in a looong time. Loved it.24 Feb 2026 03:17 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mfl7d3g6qc2ohttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mfkhbbhgxc2nPerimenopause means being interested in a vibration plate because "it may increase bone density".23 Feb 2026 20:06 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mfkhbbhgxc2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/desertbell.bsky.social/post/3mfcr4b6okc2zI know every picture I post of Glyph makes him look like he is permanently cranky and sick of my shit, but when it's claw clipping day he sits in my lap like a little person and purrs until it's done, which is pretty great.20 Feb 2026 18:41 +0000at://did:plc:ldbej6xld6hpumbrhsbcofay/app.bsky.feed.post/3mfcr4b6okc2z