Nordic and queer as hell // Tall hobbit // MDiv and Hospice Chaplain // She/her/hershttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mv42bmqnyc2mThis is also basically how I feel about children basically [contains quote post or other embedded content]09 Sep 2026 17:19 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv42bmqnyc2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3musuzz4ppc2kSomeone explain to me how tf Canadian gas prices work06 Sep 2026 01:52 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3musuzz4ppc2khttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3muperosmxc2eI really wanted to like The Room Next Door, but it was surprisingly shallow and the script was very clearly not well-translated into believable English. (Unless Almodóvar's Spanish scripts are similarly formal and stilted?) Makes me want to write the moody chamber piece I thought it would be.04 Sep 2026 16:23 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3muperosmxc2ehttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mukziw7ans2eBean! Club! Bean! Club! Bean! Club!02 Sep 2026 22:50 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mukziw7ans2ehttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3muhquhu4m22zPartner and I have floated the idea of a Scandinavia trip for our 10th anniversary (we just had our 8th), and I have family in Stockholm who I know would love to have us for dinner. But since my partner is veg+GF, that would be really tricky. So instead I'm imagining what *I* would make for *them*.01 Sep 2026 15:38 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3muhquhu4m22zhttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mufh7h2khk2nThey see the public existence and tolerance of people Not Like Them as an attack on their person. To them, "live and let live" means "return to the shadows and margins so I don't have to think about you, and (maybe) I won't hunt you down there." [contains quote post or other embedded content]31 Aug 2026 17:40 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mufh7h2khk2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mtypiqumks2cMaybe instead of my podcast today I'll honor Camp Kings by listening to Juan Gabriel and crying26 Aug 2026 16:03 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtypiqumks2chttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mtypdem3722cMaybe it will happen todaaaay [contains quote post or other embedded content]26 Aug 2026 16:00 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtypdem3722chttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mtyolst25k2kDIVA DOWN 😭😭😭 [contains quote post or other embedded content]26 Aug 2026 15:47 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtyolst25k2khttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mtsapaemmc2zIncredible video essay about bisexuality in TV and movies, why it's so hard to depict it well, and what that says about bisexuality as a challenge to both capitalism and the easy narratives of the mainstream gay rights movement https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2ou2A_-8JU24 Aug 2026 02:23 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtsapaemmc2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mtrctdc6qk27Why does it feel like there's hand sanitizer in the holy water today?23 Aug 2026 17:28 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtrctdc6qk27https://bsky.app/profile/fika-and-chill.bsky.social/post/3mtoh7xf4ls22Did a lot of reflecting with my spiritual director yesterday about how being 33 has indeed been a year of lots of challenges, but it's also been full of growth, and I'm growing in ways I wanted to when on my birthday I thought about what I want the next third of my life to be like.22 Aug 2026 14:09 +0000at://did:plc:thpbhfdro7bmdbly4y6pwcnd/app.bsky.feed.post/3mtoh7xf4ls22