Author of "Violated" and "Please Scream Quietly." Switchy rope daredevil, nascent podcaster, and rogue sociologist. MD/DMV area. https://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3mlodlgwakk2vCheck out my newest article in the magazine Contexts! [contains quote post or other embedded content]12 May 2026 17:42 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlodlgwakk2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3m7464dklrc2kNew podcast episode is up! With @jasminesherni.com https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2334300/03 Dec 2025 19:14 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3m7464dklrc2khttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3m5yqcerol22tListen to The Porn Industry Then and Now, Part 1--with Jasmine Sherni on @rss.com https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2334288/ @jasminesherni.com19 Nov 2025 17:03 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3m5yqcerol22thttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3m2q5crmkws2nNew podcast episode up on how to not drop at conventions! https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2258002/09 Oct 2025 02:47 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3m2q5crmkws2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lxx2hmgkis2qNew podcast episode is up! Part 1 of a two part conversation with ElsieXO and Jordan about keeping it hot in long term polyamorous kinky cohabiting relationships! https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2196358/03 Sep 2025 16:29 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lxx2hmgkis2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lwceyssrlc2rNew podcast episode is up! Where's the Line Between BDSM and Self-Harm? #nssi #selfharm #psychology #sociology https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2160528/13 Aug 2025 17:46 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lwceyssrlc2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lvaaiqyab223New podcast episode is up! #bdsm #kinklife #dominanceandsubmission #bdsmlifestyle https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2132914/31 Jul 2025 03:55 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lvaaiqyab223https://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lublttpkrs2jHim: "there's been a big pivot in my life, out of hacking and into rope"18 Jul 2025 23:26 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lublttpkrs2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3luajugp3a222Currently waiting for my Southwest flight. Gate agents: please please give us your carryons to check free of charge. Everyone: fuck you, give us our free checked bags back.18 Jul 2025 13:18 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3luajugp3a222https://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lu3w5irs2k2vNew podcast episode is up! #bdsm #kink #bdsmlifestyle https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2114734/16 Jul 2025 17:14 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lu3w5irs2k2vhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lsylp4roa22wNew podcast episode is a buffet of tidbits about #bisexual and #polyamorous figures from history #lgbthistory #queerhistory https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2095786/02 Jul 2025 16:04 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lsylp4roa22whttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lsc7sbauwk2nAs someone who went to graduate school to study the sociology of birth control, I always think it's hilarious when romantasy novels exist in feudal societies where people can freely and reliably control their pregnancies 🤣🤣🤣23 Jun 2025 18:32 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lsc7sbauwk2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lrvm5byjvs2eNew podcast episode is up! https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2072484/ #sociology #sexualassault #law #gender18 Jun 2025 18:09 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lrvm5byjvs2ehttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lr2qqjhooc26Bisexuals cover ourselves in rainbows for Pride because we're desperately trying to compensate for how much gay sex we're not having 😭😭😭🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈08 Jun 2025 01:49 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lr2qqjhooc26https://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lqsapgnnf22xNew podcast episode is up! https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2044215/ #sociology #sexualassault #gender #legalsociology04 Jun 2025 16:41 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lqsapgnnf22xhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lq62okoccs2oI told Boyfriend that I was going to consult a pet psychic for my cats. He sputtered at me indignantly, then immediately created a note on his phone for "easy ways to make money with AI if engineering falls through" 😂😂😂27 May 2025 16:00 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lq62okoccs2ohttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lpp3izabq222New podcast episode is up! #sociology #gender #sexuality https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2036356/21 May 2025 17:05 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lpp3izabq222https://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lpcdwk4s6s23Ugh the total mindfuck of getting turned on reading my erotica while experiencing the absolute boner killer of having to cut words from it to meet the editorial requirements #writerlife #erotica16 May 2025 15:31 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lpcdwk4s6s23https://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lolt34e5kc2eNew podcast episode is up! Chapter 1 of my book Violated https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/2017730/07 May 2025 16:30 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lolt34e5kc2ehttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lnya567xfk2pSuper mega theater nerd waiting around outside for like 20 minutes so I could video a few seconds of wild Broadway history in the making. Here's Tom Francis as Joe Gillis in this incredible production of Sunset Blvd. (sound on to hear the faintest sounds of singing)29 Apr 2025 21:31 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lnya567xfk2phttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lny7y24gl22pAny other theater nerds notice that it seems like Sunset Blvd's car has left the theater and driven across the street to Gypsy? (okay but seriously, both productions are incredible, go see them right now) #broadway #sunsetblvd #gypsymusical29 Apr 2025 21:28 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lny7y24gl22phttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lnirn7vjac2mNew podcast episode is up! Group sex--with Doug Robinson https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/1998067/23 Apr 2025 18:02 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lnirn7vjac2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lmrpm2r23s2hWhen you nervously stand up in front of a room full of your peers and proclaim "this theory we've all been using" (minority stress theory) just isn't backed up by the data" and you expect lots of people to say "fuck you" and instead a lot of them are like "yeah!"14 Apr 2025 13:54 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lmrpm2r23s2hhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lmgdytcqgk2tNew podcast episode is up! The BDSM/Polyamory and Neurodivergence Overlap https://open.spotify.com/episode/46ha6EyrbPiMUxTm6h1vYL?si=P0PU7UBqS2ylWHKFGu7YkQ10 Apr 2025 01:27 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lmgdytcqgk2thttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lmb6nenjis2dHim: "what do you mean I haven't resorted to crime yet? Crime was Plan A, but had to resort to work."08 Apr 2025 00:08 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lmb6nenjis2dhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lmb6ld44cs2dThe phrase "be gay, do crime" implies the corollary "be straight, do work"08 Apr 2025 00:07 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lmb6ld44cs2dhttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3llpsdeczzc2sRecent conversation with a friend and colleague. Me: "when I went to a conference at Princeton last year, people were politely surprised that someone like me was now working at a startup. I told them our conferences were soon to be full of unconventionally[Cont] https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2025/03/end-of-college-life/682241/01 Apr 2025 02:12 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3llpsdeczzc2shttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3llcajc7jv22oNew podcast episode is up! Audio of the first chapter of my book, Please Scream Quietly https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/195743726 Mar 2025 16:49 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3llcajc7jv22ohttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lka7yivfik2wNew podcast episode is up! The Art of the Switch, with ElsieXO. https://rss.com/podcasts/slut-phd/193058713 Mar 2025 04:09 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lka7yivfik2whttps://bsky.app/profile/slutphd.bsky.social/post/3lj47jsgpqc27New podcast episode is up! Talking about erotica and erotica writing 😊 #eroticawriting #writingcommunity https://open.spotify.com/episode/33BpYBBzbjbS6bonXSUarP?si=-3xKDc1WT6-3ksdw8fvjug26 Feb 2025 20:25 +0000at://did:plc:ux243an5zbb4xrveccd7oly6/app.bsky.feed.post/3lj47jsgpqc27