Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Callerhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mllyifunni2hComedian & podcaster Jackie Kashian helps us answer a question from a man wondering if he should reciprocate interest in a woman 30 years his junior who has made her attraction to him apparent (or so he says). We had MANY thoughts, but what are some of yours? Out tomorrow Savage.Love/Lovecast11 May 2026 19:18 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mllyifunni2hhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mlegcc2izt23Try Reflections now by visiting Feeld.co/reflections or by downloading Feeld on the App Store or Google Play. @feeldco08 May 2026 19:04 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlegcc2izt23https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mlc3235t432qDick Pics: Yay or nay? Dan chats with journalist and lawyer Jill Filipovic on a new edition of "Sex & Politics", out today! To hear this and other weekly interviews, become a Magnum Subscriber at Savage.Love/Subscribe.07 May 2026 20:37 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlc3235t432qhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3ml6xrhmr3c2pNot the obituary I wanted to read today. https://edition.cnn.com/2026/05/06/us/ted-turner-death06 May 2026 15:01 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml6xrhmr3c2phttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3ml4ywfeqqo2fThings for women in America are dire and only getting dire-er. But you can still acquire care for unwanted pregnancy through telehealth services like womenonweb.org and abortionpillsinprivate.com. For my full comments on these topics, listen to this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast, out now!05 May 2026 20:16 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml4ywfeqqo2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3ml2huwaba52hWe chatted with journalist, lawyer, and author Jill Filipovic about the recent disturbing CNN article that exposed an online "rape academy". Jill is our guest on both Savage.Love/Lovecast and a special episode of 'Sex & Politics', both coming out this week!04 May 2026 20:06 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml2huwaba52hhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mksvlwtosr24Meet Spring and Nix or “Sprix” as they are called together. These foxy sex party veterans embarked on an adventure at a religious themed event that became a team sport. Listen to today's After Action Report to hear all the details at Savage.Love/Lovecast!01 May 2026 19:50 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mksvlwtosr24https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mkqbrappzv2qManners, people manners! What should be the etiquette expectation on hook-up apps? When rejecting people, what should be the standard of politesse? Hear the Q&A here: buff.ly/goWtC1c30 Apr 2026 18:49 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkqbrappzv2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mknt5vne232mQuick housekeeping question for fleshlight owners: how on earth do you dry those things?29 Apr 2026 19:23 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mknt5vne232mhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mkmv4h6v3c2bSo glad I got my passport renewed in January. [contains quote post or other embedded content]29 Apr 2026 10:25 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkmv4h6v3c2bhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mklbpydtyr2qPope Leo XIV makes a statement about deprioritizing sexual morality to focus on more pressing human rights issues. And this is your PSA to watch Monty Python's "The Meaning Of Life". New Savage.Love/Lovecast out now!28 Apr 2026 19:05 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mklbpydtyr2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mkki727cfk2rSo, first one since the last one. [contains quote post or other embedded content]28 Apr 2026 11:29 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkki727cfk2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mkircd5wbi26Dr. Jennie Young wrote the book on navigating dating apps for straight women. Her new book titled "Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter" outlines methods that she hopes will help women save time and sanity. On tomorrow's Magnum: Savage.Love/Lovecast27 Apr 2026 19:06 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkircd5wbi26https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mejvyd6orj26What are we supposed to do with our old dildos? The great people of Minnesota are showing us a hot new use for our "expired dicks" - as a tool for resistance! Listen for more at Savage.Love/Lovecast!10 Feb 2026 21:32 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mejvyd6orj26https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mkba7ycr7c2qA 38 year old poly married man gets to indulge a long-held desire, thanks to his very GGG girlfriend. I loved this After Action Report so much because it reminds us all how weird and how random a kink or a turn-on can be. I even share a very random turn-on of my own! LISTEN: Savage.Love/Lovecast.24 Apr 2026 19:12 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkba7ycr7c2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mk6punzfh423Being a bridesmaid? In this economy?? How should this caller handle the bridesmaid's burden being placed upon her? Our answer on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast.23 Apr 2026 19:14 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk6punzfh423https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mk4btpyjr62hThis seems like a classic "Do-what-you-have-to-do-to-stay-married-and-stay-sane" situation. Do any of you have a compelling reason why he should *not* cheat? Any other ideas on what this man/couple should do?22 Apr 2026 19:58 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk4btpyjr62hhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjzorbjg5e2qTime for a poll: what's the sexiest holiday and why is it definitely Easter? New Savage.Love/Lovecast out today!21 Apr 2026 19:11 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjzorbjg5e2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjrfeslyds2mLeopard, meet face. Face, leopard. [contains quote post or other embedded content]18 Apr 2026 12:02 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjrfeslyds2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjplqso4d52vNow here we have a true conundrum. She has two doms, one who lives in her town and the other who doesn't. What should she do when they issue conflicting orders?17 Apr 2026 18:50 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjplqso4d52vhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjn4p2dtrb22Last week we posted a question from a woman who saw an old friend in a porn and wondered if she should reach out to tell her about it. Our advice at the time was to leave it alone but you all lit up our comments with sentiments to the contrary! And now, we agree. Share your thoughts at Savage.Love16 Apr 2026 19:16 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjn4p2dtrb22https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjkquepa2o2nI’m so excited to share that I'll be speaking at Sessions Live 2026, Esther Perel’s annual clinical conference. Sessions Live is a two-day gathering for therapists, clinicians, and curious minds exploring desire, connection, and the forces shaping how we relate today. 🎟️: buff.ly/4Ca0rgd15 Apr 2026 20:39 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjkquepa2o2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjklc2kkrl2iNo shame in kink! Especially when there are many others just like you out there who share similar kinks in reaction to the cultural forces all around us. This clip is from our conversation with Doc Chocolate on the Magnum Edition of this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast.15 Apr 2026 18:59 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjklc2kkrl2ihttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mji67b7shp26CA democratic gubernatorial candidate, Eric Swalwell, has dropped out of the race and out of congress following a slew of allegations of misconduct by multiple women. If only all government representatives suffered consequences for their criminal misconduct! On today's Savage.Love/Lovecast!14 Apr 2026 19:59 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mji67b7shp26https://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjfl6eriu42oFormer pastor turned porn star & podcast host Doc Chocolate returns to the Savage Lovecast this week to answer caller questions and frankly to make us feel like we are doing this podcasting thing all wrong. Join us as a Magnum subscriber to hear our full convo tomorrow on Savage.Love/Lovecast!13 Apr 2026 19:13 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjfl6eriu42ohttps://bsky.app/profile/dansavage.bsky.social/post/3mjd3yul5lk26Send him to Moscow.12 Apr 2026 19:37 +0000at://did:plc:x3ui2adxty53meflbdham5ut/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjd3yul5lk26