Unapologetically Black. Be nice to mehttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.apphttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlvlbc4jr22nTaking care of my health with the resources available to me isn’t bougie I am definitely bougie about other things (See: My sex toy collection) But staying alive and healthy the best I can with what I got, simply because I want to enjoy my life for as long as I can, is just me taking care of me15 May 2026 14:48 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlvlbc4jr22nhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlua6xdssc2gI used to worry, “When’s the next big thing going to happen?” Waiting for the other shoe to drop Now I remember Most of my days are pretty chill. Lovely, even And I’ve survived everything I’ve ever been through I’m good15 May 2026 01:57 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlua6xdssc2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlqn3dcjek2nI honestly didn’t realize that they weren’t talking about Ric Flair when they said there’s a nature boy documentary lol13 May 2026 15:37 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlqn3dcjek2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mllndcipl22tYou’re wasting your money if you lie to your doctors and lawyers11 May 2026 15:58 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mllndcipl22thttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlk5gb5vpc2zI was worried last minute that I didn’t have my fiancé unlock my bdsm-y collar before FaceTime with my mom, but one of the first things she said was how much she loved it and how good it looked on me. I don’t think she knows what it is 😂11 May 2026 01:41 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlk5gb5vpc2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlk35zocss2zUnpopular opinion But that’s okay It’s not an opinion It’s a fact [contains quote post or other embedded content]11 May 2026 01:01 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlk35zocss2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlgflhorys25Honestly, the biggest thing I learned from D.A.R.E. was that drugs existed09 May 2026 13:56 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlgflhorys25https://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mldxrbf5k223“I generated that” and “Shut that off!” made me cackle [contains quote post or other embedded content]08 May 2026 14:44 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mldxrbf5k223https://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mlczf77d322xI’ve become one of those people who always wears sunglasses on her head… very dramatic08 May 2026 05:40 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mlczf77d322xhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3ml6wu4ifcc2wIdea: Tool that tracks how late doctors are running and tells you, in real time, when your actual appointment is06 May 2026 14:44 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml6wu4ifcc2whttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3ml5m52juu22yI love that so many of us remember the name Fefe Dobson [contains quote post or other embedded content]06 May 2026 02:00 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3ml5m52juu22yhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkyagka3yc2jYou’re evil if you don’t let me go first in the grocery line when I have 2 items and you’re in front of me with a full cart 😡03 May 2026 22:47 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkyagka3yc2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkw45ilwxk2pDo I really look familiar, or have you just seen a few other Black women recently?03 May 2026 02:25 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkw45ilwxk2phttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkqdnlqr2s2jI needed to cheer up, so I’m wearing a fancy French clown nose all day30 Apr 2026 19:23 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkqdnlqr2s2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkpvshwdhk2nWhat you see on the internet is just my highlight reel You haven’t seen my pill drawers I have an awesome life that I never could have dreamed of AND I get so sad sometimes People hurt me I mess up I am a lot of things beyond my highlight reel30 Apr 2026 15:15 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkpvshwdhk2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkimq5vgrc2tSeparate. I just let the autocorrect do its thing every time [contains quote post or other embedded content]27 Apr 2026 17:44 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkimq5vgrc2thttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkfrbb327227I can’t explain it, but cishet men seem to remember high school better than the rest of us26 Apr 2026 14:28 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkfrbb327227https://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mkaqg4mi6s2xI knew recession pop was a thing, but I looked up recession rap and now I have playlists to go along with my memories of wild nights of leaving the club in business casual and platform peep toes24 Apr 2026 14:29 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkaqg4mi6s2xhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk6x247eg22jExhibitionist, all the way [contains quote post or other embedded content]23 Apr 2026 21:22 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk6x247eg22jhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk6pbztiss22Me, every day on this app [contains quote post or other embedded content]23 Apr 2026 19:04 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk6pbztiss22https://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk6akag6vs2lFor some reason, my first thought this morning was that every single one of my friends has at least one quality that makes me think, “I could be more like that” And I think that’s really beautiful23 Apr 2026 14:40 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk6akag6vs2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk5dfrjzac2pVibrating adjustable bed. Heated mattress topper. Heated blanket. The outside world is a lot, I want to make home as comfortable and amenable to my sensory sensitivities and needs as possible23 Apr 2026 05:58 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk5dfrjzac2phttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk4g7mzthc2fI feel like the Grinch, but I want to ban the hours of 1:00–5:00 from every weekday. I only want long mornings or long evenings. I can figure this out 😅22 Apr 2026 21:16 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk4g7mzthc2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk36fu2cgk2fI post happy things about my life bc I love it when other people do It lights up my day when I scroll on Blacksky & see someone achieved or received something great. I like the posts every time, even if I don’t know them If we forget what joy feels like, what kind of world are we really building?22 Apr 2026 09:24 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk36fu2cgk2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mk2egx4b6s2fWe just got tickets to rave with Bjork in Iceland this summer under a total solar eclipse… what is life? 🌱22 Apr 2026 01:39 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk2egx4b6s2fhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mjwmj5puos2qAww, I love a good calico kitty. And they can be sassy, so this fits 😅 [contains quote post or other embedded content]20 Apr 2026 13:53 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjwmj5puos2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/oatchailatte.blacksky.app/post/3mjrpmnlhwc25maybe i would have made different decisions if my soundtrack at the time wasn’t the state vs radric davis i had fun, i regret nothing18 Apr 2026 15:05 +0000at://did:plc:xry3rdeca3glimeul2wahbz5/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjrpmnlhwc25