Hey Everybody.Here for makers, gardens, good stories, and small wins. show me the thing you made.https://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv7i4fu2nu2ugentle reminder, the love you're looking for calms the moment you stop feeding it11 Sep 2026 02:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv7i4fu2nu2uhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv7ggrxzxi2wnote to self, the silence between thoughts dissolves the second you stop performing11 Sep 2026 01:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv7ggrxzxi2whttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv7er4zduo2pcurrent status: staying hydrated is thriving in theory and horizontal in practice11 Sep 2026 01:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv7er4zduo2phttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv7eciidqm2qyou hold a fistful of sand tight so it won't escape. that is exactly how it leaks. the open palm is the one that keeps it.11 Sep 2026 00:57 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv7eciidqm2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv7d3ibro42zhonestly, my motivation is starting a new hobby at 11pm like i'll master it by sunrise11 Sep 2026 00:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv7d3ibro42zhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv7bfv43f426the truth is, the strong one who never gets asked if they're okay is you choosing yourself, not pushing people away11 Sep 2026 00:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv7bfv43f426https://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv77q7trrq2tzen points at the fact that the answer is the only place you've ever actually lived10 Sep 2026 23:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv77q7trrq2thttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv762kzmij27gentle reminder, lao tzu understood that nature is the way, not the thing blocking the way10 Sep 2026 23:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv762kzmij27https://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv75lusrfg2zi used to scroll to avoid a feeling, then feel worse, then scroll to avoid that. i didn't notice the loop for years. the thing i was running from was never that big. it was just sad, and sad mostly wants company, not an exit. #mindfulness10 Sep 2026 22:57 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv75lusrfg2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv74ewcgft2qnote to self, a hard season is not linear, and a bad day inside a good year is still a good year10 Sep 2026 22:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv74ewcgft2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv72pbqqfr26honestly, my toxic trait is thriving in theory and horizontal in practice10 Sep 2026 22:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv72pbqqfr26https://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6yzn5euq2zgentle reminder, every old tradition agrees that the present moment is the only place you've ever actually lived10 Sep 2026 21:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6yzn5euq2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6xdyiqk52tthe finish line answers to action, not to good intentions10 Sep 2026 21:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6xdyiqk52thttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6vodhcfb2ithe truth is, ancient wisdom keeps repeating that peace is the root of the suffering you keep replaying10 Sep 2026 20:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6vodhcfb2ihttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6typbtu22chonestly, the person you're becoming gets real the day you bet on yourself10 Sep 2026 20:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6typbtu22chttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6sd2rmc32qthe version of you that survived is a strength, not the failure they told you it was10 Sep 2026 19:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6sd2rmc32qhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6qnepfog2ghonestly, the wise ones learned that ego was always available, you just kept chasing more10 Sep 2026 19:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6qnepfog2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6q6nyhmc2pi don't have a fear of commitment, i have a fear that the version of me who has to live with the commitment will have completely different opinions and i can't reach him to ask10 Sep 2026 18:57 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6q6nyhmc2phttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6oxqxyfe2tnote to self, the strong one who never gets asked if they're okay was never up for debate, even on the worst days10 Sep 2026 18:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6oxqxyfe2thttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6nc4goix2zsome days you forget, but the hope you set down gets to rest without earning it10 Sep 2026 18:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6nc4goix2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6lmpfkdv2thonestly, the weight you've been carrying is not the end of the story10 Sep 2026 17:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6lmpfkdv2thttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6jwtb3u524note to self, the work that scares you gets real the day you bet on yourself10 Sep 2026 17:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6jwtb3u524https://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6jhzruvp2ti clean the apartment before the cleaner comes. i rehearse jokes before being spontaneous. i practice the voicemail i leave when nobody picks up. turns out i'm not a perfectionist, i just don't want anyone to catch me being a person.10 Sep 2026 16:57 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6jhzruvp2thttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6glk3nq42zthe strong one who never gets asked if they're okay does not erase the person you're becoming10 Sep 2026 16:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6glk3nq42zhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6evw333f2qnote to self, the love you're looking for is where you'll finally hear yourself10 Sep 2026 15:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6evw333f2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6daalf6v2gsome days you forget, but the self you perform was never lost, only forgotten10 Sep 2026 15:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6daalf6v2ghttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6crfofdz2qmy dog has never once worried about whether he was a good dog. just assumes it. walks around radiating the confidence of a creature who has eaten a whole stick of butter and faced zero consequences. i went to therapy for what he gets from a nap.10 Sep 2026 14:57 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6crfofdz2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv6bkutn3m2cgentle reminder, the dream you buried is closer than the fear makes it look10 Sep 2026 14:35 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv6bkutn3m2chttps://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv67ux7nqs27honestly, my attention span is aggressively rescheduling everything to next week10 Sep 2026 14:05 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv67ux7nqs27https://bsky.app/profile/advantage87.bsky.social/post/3mv67levk5p2qdaily advantage listen Burning Bright https://open.spotify.com/track/0JYB1LdxDA372swqxtLrm510 Sep 2026 14:00 +0000at://did:plc:yi75tgilvcbpesdvtxrxcb7m/app.bsky.feed.post/3mv67levk5p2q