she/her | bisexual 💗💜💙 | 29 i got 99 problems and kpop is at least 97 of them.https://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.socialhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mkvqgjie5c2zi don't know what higher power thought using a weird, bearded white guy as a conduit to assure me of grandmother's presence my life was a good idea but it was a) not and b) horrible timing. i didn't ask to cry at work today, thanks. and if it was just sheer bad luck and coincidence, i hate that!02 May 2026 22:55 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkvqgjie5c2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mkni4gzogc24its been a long time since a music video has affected me like this. and last time it still wasn't anything like this. good on cr*v*ty and st*rsh*p, but just for the record! there is such a thing as being too committed to a theme.29 Apr 2026 16:05 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mkni4gzogc24https://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mklxw5lcrs2xi know my body needs rest when i can manage a full day of playing a video game with very few breaks. normally, i get tired or bored or distracted or feel guilty but i literally played minecraft for almost 12 straight hours the other day. for me, that is rest. that's my brain turning the fuck off.29 Apr 2026 01:43 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mklxw5lcrs2xhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mk26ld3d7k22upon toying around with a new streamer au, i'm thinking hard on the last streamer au i worked on where it was "taboo" for one of the characters to be both a streamer and run an OF when, in just a few short years, i've seen a MASSIVE increase in people who do both of those things, unapologetically.21 Apr 2026 23:54 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mk26ld3d7k22https://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mjlfizigjk2zso its past ten pm. no fucking power. new estimated time? three in the fucking morning. thanks for nothing, consumers energy. a full 12 hours after the FIRST estimated restoration time. fuck, dude.16 Apr 2026 02:48 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjlfizigjk2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mjkrfn6dxc2luh, update: power is now meant to come back online at 10 PM TONIGHT instead of 3 this afternoon. so that kind of fucking blows.15 Apr 2026 20:48 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjkrfn6dxc2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mjk5wl7v2s2lso. some severe weather swept thru my area last night (possible tornado touch down less than ten miles from me) so we are currently without power (have been since midnight, est. restoration is 3 pm today) but there is good news!15 Apr 2026 15:00 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjk5wl7v2s2lhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mjfz73m5ks2mnot to get emotional on main, but given all the bullshit happening lately, in kpop, in the world, in my own fucking personal life, this makes me wanna cry holding out for the next ot13 comeback, and hopefully concert tour because i didn't buy a lightstick at my big age to not use it [contains quote post or other embedded content]13 Apr 2026 23:24 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mjfz73m5ks2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3miluyxm5dc2ehaving watched the vertiable shitshow kpop, especially 3rd gen kpop groups, have become in past few years part of me is like this might as well happen.03 Apr 2026 14:00 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3miluyxm5dc2ehttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mih6ijuoe22snot to be dramatic, but i absolutely just crashed out because my laundry machine wasn't running correctly it was not about the laundry01 Apr 2026 17:07 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mih6ijuoe22shttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mhwip3ux722ti worry having no one to tell about my newest hyperfixation on cr*v*ty is actually making me worse so be it26 Mar 2026 01:54 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhwip3ux722thttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mhvle6njss2rnothing is more embarrassing as an "ex" nctzen than ALL the tools in my house, from cleaning to actual hardware, being fucking neon green. ryobi i am begging you to pick a new color scheme atp.25 Mar 2026 17:09 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhvle6njss2rhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mhpayya4rc2mi don't work tomorrow but i DO work on tuesday and these popped blood vessels in my eyes are definitely not gonna heal in time. my coworkers are gonna think i look crazy.23 Mar 2026 04:48 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhpayya4rc2mhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mhkkmuduxs2zi don't think it's ever gonna matter how old i get. throwing up scares the fucking life out of my every time i do it. i fucking hate it.21 Mar 2026 07:57 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhkkmuduxs2zhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mhhlqgavuk2ji'm not saying porcelain maid was the inspiration behind something in my new fic BUT i'm not NOT saying it (puppet and / or doll emoji when?)20 Mar 2026 03:38 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mhhlqgavuk2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mgveprbyjk2dis my job my dream job? no. not even close. have my coworkers and customers made me laugh more than i ever thought i would after getting such frustrating news two days ago? yeah, they have. sometimes that can be enough.12 Mar 2026 21:45 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgveprbyjk2dhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mgsf4oisj22safter my Very Valid crashout, i did at least accomplish some things my taxes are done 👍🏻11 Mar 2026 17:14 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgsf4oisj22shttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mgs3prr7ec2qi HATE being into kpop. i am so SICK of this shit always happening.11 Mar 2026 14:26 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgs3prr7ec2qhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mgohgkd5ns2ji gotta stop trying to write about sports i know shit all about. catch me trying to speed run it by skimming the wikipedia like a moron.10 Mar 2026 03:45 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgohgkd5ns2jhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mgo5g5yf3c2bno one makes me laugh & cry so genuinely like @woolpi.bsky.social's works do. their writing is something so fucking special i can't put it into words.10 Mar 2026 00:46 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mgo5g5yf3c2bhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mfsu4nk5hs2chaving THE most unorganized gdocs in the world means that when i want to read a half-finished bedtime story that i catered to my tastes, exclusively, i'm picking through 6 to 10 folders MINIMUM to find the Right One.27 Feb 2026 04:17 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mfsu4nk5hs2chttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mfcdvnsnzk25this feels intensely targeted and i don't like it (ur a genius) [contains quote post or other embedded content]20 Feb 2026 14:45 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mfcdvnsnzk25https://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3meubqd2ff225despite the busy holiday rushes i managed to build over half (!!!) the profiles i needed for this au. and yet the writing has still not really begun. sigh.15 Feb 2026 00:28 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3meubqd2ff225https://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3mert26276s2xpeople who write smaus are some of the craziests motherfuckers i know. it is such an underrated form of story telling and one of the hardest things you will ever learn to do as an author.14 Feb 2026 01:00 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3mert26276s2xhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3m7tjpaxwjc2snothing in this world like realizing how small minded your predominantly white small town community is by experiencing at least two microagressions about two different communities of people. in a single work day. less than, even!13 Dec 2025 02:12 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m7tjpaxwjc2shttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3m5yx5u27rc2nwhat perfect album came out the year you turned 16? these are all perfect to me. and i do not care that two of these are eps. argue with the wall. [contains quote post or other embedded content]19 Nov 2025 19:06 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m5yx5u27rc2nhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3m5vzh64zgc2dit is such a kick in the teeth when every time i turn around i feel like i have to justify my grief to people. maybe it's working in retail, or maybe it really is just my job but its so frustrating to feel like my grief isn't enough of a reason.18 Nov 2025 15:09 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m5vzh64zgc2dhttps://bsky.app/profile/sofarsoperfect.bsky.social/post/3m5n5lx7jfc2wi really do not want to go to work tomorrow. between my asst manager acting like i was the biggest inconvenience and knowing my coworkers are going to ask me how i'm doing, i don't want to. i don't wanna play nice rn.15 Nov 2025 02:29 +0000at://did:plc:ze2nrcu7yyocqkyco27qwhwf/app.bsky.feed.post/3m5n5lx7jfc2w